There came a time some years ago when I was tired of wasting headpin after headpin because I couldn't make two equal-sized, nice-looking loops in a row. A headpin goes through a bead from bottom to top. Then you loop the wire (and I like to wrap it so the loop will never pull out.) You have to make two equal loops if you want your pair of earrings to match well.
But I couldn't do it. I looked at explanation after explanation, watched online videos etc etc etc. There were a thousand different ways to make a loop. Finally I decided it didn't matter how others did it -- I needed to find the way that I could do it.
So I took a lot of copper wire (the cheapest) and spent three days just making loops. And at the end, I had figured out my personal method, and I've never worried about doing it since.
Reminds me of an old saying I learned in divinity school: "Pray as you can, not as you can't."
In art, as in other things, it is all too easy to compare ourselves to others. I often look with amazement at other makers' jewelry and think "I couldn't do that in a million years!" Anything to do with metal-smithing using scary tools(!) -- or intricately wire-wrapping pendants -- or anything remotely related to weaving minuscule seed beads into complex patterns -- nope. Not in my repertoire.
But exploring new things which I might be able to do (like alcohol inks!), finding I can do them, and trying to improve my skills as I do -- that is a part of the art journey I'm on right now.
Is there something in your life where you are enjoying "doing what you can" and learning to do it better?
Elizabeth